We have spoken freely to you, Corinthians; our heart is wide open. You are not restricted by us, but you are restricted in your own affections. In return (I speak as to children) widen your hearts also. - 2 Corinthians 6:11

The call to patience requires a shift in our thinking. We often equate patience with not being impatient, that to be patient means we didn't do something rash like scream or punch or stomp. Well, the absence of war is not the presence of peace. Patience, literally, means "to suffer long". This is why we call people in medical crisis patients. They are suffering.

Christians suffer like Christ when they respond with affection as they receive affliction. They are generous with their time and energy, their kindness and truth, with forgiveness and godliness. Yes, patience is proactive because they are more consumed with drawing others to faith then they are their own comfort.  This patience, our patience, means we do suffer and feel pain and disappointment. We are uncomfortable but choose to respond with grace. 

Are your people patient? Are you? Do you/they/ have a circle of relationships that try our patience? Lean in and help your people see those individuals as needing faith and reconciliation to God. Kindness draws one to repentance- not impatience.

Key Question to ask: When are you struggling to practice patience?

•  Use those names as prayer prompts. Seek their salvation- not your comfort. Proactive prayer is a sure weapon against impatience.